My family has said in like public that, um, they'll only use their magics for good and that they consider themselves lowborn now. They still have some traditions that they follow. Some are based on like druid arts, some on values of femininity and some on relationships and marriages.
Like they're totally for preserving the forests by protecting them with magic. My father and boy and girl children in my family and the extended family would journey the roads from Darnassus to Shadowglen looking for aberrant creatures, aggressive beasts or dangerous bandits. My mother earned the total adoration of the Sentinels and Priestesses for her dedication to using Frost magic to turn into rain to water the forest, or to put out fires or to freeze enemy beasts or people in ice blocks and take them to the authorities.
They have, um, like rules for me too: I must cover my body completely, even with a veil, and never-ever date a girl. In fact my daddy and mommy would prefer I dated a man who is a mage or druid. I am k-kinda feminine and submissive? And would like my p-partners to be girls because.... My heart was like totally set on a very, very pretty human paladin who always protected me if I needed help.
The rules and traditions continue to state that not only must girls of the Violetflower family stay modest they must have a deferential and professional attitude at all times, like daddy says. Mommy says like, 'Just try your best to not offend people and do your most skilled job at anything you do.' I love both my parents and I hear they still live in Darnassus? I've been in Val'sharah for so long.
We consider ourselves commoners despite that magic was only learned by the wealthy peoples way back when. We wear simple clothes, inexpensive jewelry in sparing styles, little makeups or no makeups... and we do get piercings yet only a few and most girls my age from my family only get earrings. I have a pair of leaf shaped earrings.
In politics we take a stance between moderate and radical. From the few meetings of the elders of the Violetflower family that I've been to they were very concerned that infighting from former highborne would lead us back to obscurity. So we must remember that the old ways have values and so do the new ways.
Relationships? My mommy wanna hear everything about them. What we did, what we ate if one of us cooked, what we did... in bed. I try to politely ignore the questions I don't wanna answer. Mommy tells me that as long as I work for our family as an adventurer I would do well to follow her rules or else like... out the doors I go? So I be a good girl as much as I can and try to respect the traditions of our family.